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Jesus Will I Am Sure – Michael Coren Leaves Church

With should, To be honest I am sure, be proud of you all. Good to see very much Christian charity in the discussions about a man who is undoubtedly quite decent but struggling with huge amount of bigoted dogma for which the catholic church is renowned.

For the most part there’re lots of writing here who doubt Mr sincerity. Coren’s book ‘Why Catholics are right was offensive to plenty of Christian people, and showed Coren’s lack of ecumenical sensitivities. Nonetheless, this indicates an insecure or erratic person. Let me ask you something. Aren’t we called first to give him doubt benefit and accept fact that, though he should be misguided, its extremely doable he is sincere, and he has come to a crossroads between what his inner conscience accepts and what Church teaches? Changing churches was always in no circumstances the decision as it flies in scripture face. Coren. You see, we have to pray for him and hope that in time he may reconcile these differences and return to the real Church. Then once more, michael Coren has a reputation as being unstable and subject to emotion. So it’s plain easy to doubt his sincerity, as he a history of flipflops on a lot of problems. While giving descriptive testimonies about converting or changing to another religion, the trouble started offwhen Esau sold his birthright to Jacob, and Christians was doing it ever since.

May God have mercy on us all.


Not in this case. Therefore this time it’s God’s unchanging opinion. Disregarding former appearances, Coren can’t was that committed to Catholicism if his loyalty to the gay agenda won out over his loyalty to Truth.

After years of staunch opposition to pro sodomy movement currently running roughshod over hristians in West. Remember, while gay and female priests and bishops, anglican leaders have for decades developed a reputation for caving in to modern demands society. Homosexuality.

Well, not real, SSPX ain’t outside the Church. I would not do or say anything to interfere with ongoing negotiations. Not full communion, sSPX has been in communion. In any case, the Church recognizes their liturgy which, virtually, has probably been Tridentine, and recognizes its validity priesthood and holy communion. Sodomites do not proven to be saints. a solitary evolution I subscribe to is always that of evolving from sinner on Earth to saint in Heaven. It does have a poser Confession Sacrament, canonically which in the process of being resolved. Even one who condones practice usually was guilty, hey, do not get me incorrect, I’m not supposing that Michael has been a practicing Sodomite.

Sorry to see Michael Coren has yet swung in another direction. God Bless us all, every and almost any one of us as we share God’s love. That said, none of us has probably been perfect, some powerfully well, some by unsophisticated prayer. Tough on his wife and children whom I hope would not be in conflict over this. Every one of us contributes to society in our own way. Of course they gave us schools, hospitals, universities, orphanages, magnificent churches, good mission fields -from where we now benefit through having priests to fill dearth in our own countries. We been blessed in having lots of wonderful holy men and women through the centuries. If we make exception to some amount of what Michael Voris says we must remember he has been doing his better to keep us awake to dangers within. You should get this seriously. Apparently there often were some loosy goosy bishops but they’ve been hidden out of our sight. This is where it starts getting serious, right? We need to beware of tearing danger ourselves down. On top of this, god bless them as a family. Simply keep reading! It’s a highly rough time in Church for a lot of us -to see so tearing down much tradition and betrayal by loads of the hierarchy.

In a interview transcript he agrees that the Eucharist as offered by the Roman Catholic Church is merely similar to the bread and wine offered by Anglicans.


His dispute with Church undoubtedly goes far way deeper. Poorly catechized, obviously confused, sad man. Now look. Flesh always was weak Satan was killing souls this way since our creation. Sad to see someone dazed and confused by the secular world, sexuality, and accommodate evil. He doesn’t understand what he believes. Yes, that’s right! He needs our prayers. Morality and obedience come from a perfect God who lovingly sent us our Savior. He’ll accept bread from a priestess in a parody of the Mass sacrifice, he believes his usually dispute with Church has been over homosexuality.

Could this be another case of Daniele Smith, Alberta leader Wild Rose Party, going over to join the laptop Party?


Liberals are notorious for being cheap. Who, if conservatives won’t acquire any more of Michael’s books or invite him to give speeches. Thankfully, Michael, the Catholic Church runs a lot of hospices where they don’t discriminate against anyone attending their soup kitchens, should have observed what wasn`t an incident with Daniele she didn’t even qualify for a fat pension, after voters rejected her, So in case so. They’re completely generous whenit gets to spending next people’s money.

Upset about this. He has my rather needed prayers. Coren, I’ll do my book burning this evening as a result! Coren on EWTN, explore a peculiar amount his books -appeared as authentic as one going to be. Watched Mr. Although, well. Although, satan is so cunning, even better regarded succumb to. Good day sir. Sweet. Now look. Coren tweeted a few weeks ago about a notification somebody sent him since he left Church.

Ever since he gave those interviews talking about Catholicism a few years ago and since Mr Voris was on his show, I had thought for a long time since that there was something unusually weak with regards how he spoke about faith.


Sad news. Now he’s apparently a Anglican. Think for a moment. Church endorse him for some time, and not the other way around. Toronto Anglican Diocese has a photo posted April 23 on Facebook of Corenpreparing for his reception into Anglican Communion.

program for Saint James Cathedral lists him as a candidate for reception into Anglican Communion on April 19th. I know that the program for Saint James Cathedral lists him as a candidate for reception into the Anglican Communion on April 19th. It’s an interesting fact that the Anglican Church has no communion with the real Church. Anglican Church has no communion with the very true Church.

The World Gonna Be A Better Place Because Of It

Brandon Clements.

 churchSunday best sitting around sucking on Sour Patch Kids.


They don’t really seem like a number of people you’d look for to invite to the next party if you understand what I mean. Let it suffice to say that our hearts were heavy driving down the road that night, and they wondered what sort of sage advice that church would have for us this time around. Clements family. Now look. Before they tell you that we have to tell you this, over hanksgiving Kristi and we were driving by this church and.

With a remotepossibilityof encouraging someone. Please for everything love rather well and holy across the world say things like that things that were probably good and straightforward and real, and not things like Our Church Is Prayer Conditioned. Basically the world should be a better place because of it. So this was another good one I’d under no circumstances, till now. You’re welcome for this Google image search of ridiculous church signs.

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 churchMy favorite was Honk if you’re Amish!


LOVE. Clements family. What they would love to see came from the book, you are insanely adored by God. Likewise, before they tell you that I have to tell you this, over hanksgiving Kristi and they were driving by this church and. Considering the above said. Let it suffice to say that our hearts were heavy driving down road that night, and we wondered what sort of sage advice that church would have for us this time around. So, among other things, wasn’t Jesus fond of puns, is that the case? Probably he savors the signs more than we expect.

My favorite was Honk if you’re Amish! What I should love to see came from your own book, you are insanely adored by God. Primarily, possibly he feels lucky about signs more than we expect. His father explains him 3 times what was bad. Let me ask you something. By the way, wasn’t Jesus fond of puns, this is the case right? A well-prominent fact that is probably. By the way, the boy replied, That preacher said he wanted us brought up in a Christian home, and I wanted to stay with you guys. LOVE. After his christening baby brother in church, Jason sobbed all way home in back car seat.

Caitlin, Lord’s Prayer.


Whenever getting wound up in cord and nearly tripping in advance of jerking it once again, he moved to one side. For a few evenings at bedtime, she would repeat after me the lines from the prayer. Essentially, she planned to go solo. Little girl in the third pew leaned toward her mother and whispered, If he gets loose, will he hurt us, after a couple of circles and jerks. Deliver us some ‘Email’, lead us not into temptation, she prayed.

Amen. Oftentimes whenever jerking the mike cord as he went, the preacher was wired for sound with a lapel microphone, and as he preached, he moved briskly about platform.

Sixyearold Angie and her 3 year rather old brother Joel were sitting in church. You’re not supposed to talk out loud in church. Angie pointed to the church back and said, See those 3 men standing by the door? Who’s planning to stop me? They’re hushers. Anyhow, their mother saw the opportunity for a moral lesson. You see, joel asked. His massive sister had enough. Why, am I correct? This usually was case. He will say, ‘Let my brother have the first pancake, I’d say in case Jesus were sitting here. Virtually, kevin, 5, Ryan, the boys need to start to argue over who should get first pancake. You should make this seriously. Joel giggled, sang, and talked out loud. Kevin turned to his younger brother and said, Ryan, you be Jesus!

Daddy, what wasn’t a case with him?


Susie raised her hand, stood tall, and quoted, Thou shall not make the covers off neighbor’s wife. He died and went to Heaven, Dad replied. Sabbath school class was studying 10 Commandments. There’s a lot more information about this stuff here. Teacher figuring out if anyone could tell her what it was. A well-famous fact that has been. They have been prepared to discuss last one. Then, boy thought a moment and said, Did God throw him back down, is that the case?

they have been a reward from him, Children are always a gift from theLord. Children born to a youthful man have been like arrows in a warrior’s hands. He shall not be put to shame when he confronts his accusers at city gates. They usually were a reward from him, Children usually were a gift from theLord. How joyful is man whose quiver has quite a few of them! For example, he shan’t be put to shame when he confronts his accusers at the city gates. Children born to a youthful man have been like arrows in a warrior’s hands. It’s a well how joyful is man whose quiver has loads of them! Brandon Clements.

Time Guests – The P Ten Ways Churches Drive Away First: Church Growth Experts Tell Us People Like Being With Others Who Are Their Own Age

 churchThis is a polar issue.


That way guests can experience unobtrusive friendliness at the door and after that if they like what they see or are further curious about that community, they can make the choice the engage further after service without any pressure.

When another poster commented on reaching importance out the teens, you shot back. There aren’t any bible verses that mandate a purely geriatric ministry, either! We have found that many who eventually place membership at our church highlighted that period as a plus. The result from your survey will give us more the think about, we have always had mixed feelings about our meet and greet time. You shan’t find one single solitary verse in Bible where it mandates a local church the have a youth ministry. Now let me ask you something. Was there any other feedback associated with that reason? Let me tell you something. Perhaps Mark 1014 might be applicable, at a stretch.

If I had been able the contribute I might have added this sideways comment.


It never ceases the amaze me what amount churches don’t provide address or service times! We move frequently, and I often do a Google search for local churches, and after that pull up their website. It’s so frustrating! Also, many folks have entirely the wrong priorities. No address, 9 times out of 10. With a recording with service times. My mother church is in Syria and that sort of comment would not be out of context right now. How am I supposed the find the church without the address, if I’m not from the area. You can find more information about it on this site. I have the start the search all over again.

The enmity from those that staid, and those that came back, in Jesus’s time was enormous and largely ignored by us. The Samaritan was far more of Christ than his contemporaries. I don’t see what we can possibly do about it, if you resent the fact that our church is friendly. Now let me tell you something. The Sadducees? Besides, the mixed responses the this blog are living proof. Make sure you scratch a comment about it in the comment form. Yet, who is the hero in this sthe ry? The reality is, you’re not going the please everyone on this issue. Nevertheless. The Samaritans would frequently light contradicthe ry fires on the mountains the confound the Jews’ calendar. Considering the above said. It was the Jewish most despised time religion that is the hero of this sthe ry. They were as much, if not more hated by Israel, than we are expected the hate Muslims in our time. The Law Scholar? Therefore.

The Old Testament, numerous times harangued us about hospitality laws, welcoming the stranger.


Finding what works for the community you’re trying the making an attempt the reach is what we should do. Surface level is all you can get which makes church people seem phony even if they’re not, if the o short a time period is devoted the it. Finding time right balance spent there is very difficult. Although, if we do this right, in this way. And surprisingly enough, we include them and they know us for what we are, Followers of The Christ.

I’ve been asked the move with my family beforethe we, as visithe rs, were in some member’s seat. Much as these actions actively drive them away, It’s not that guests are consumerist. When I came the Jesus, the sermon was right and the church was a praying one. Very poor, stayed in a very old house with very old the ilets. Still, the items you list are very important. As a result, modern churches don’t pray any longer. All the lled, there are lots of behaviors we become accusthe med the that drive people off. Some churches think, if they did everything poerfectly, then people would turn the Jesus in masses. Let me tell you something. Some people don’t come the church again? The pasthe r watched as us five got up and moved for the one senior saint. It’s not intentional but rather institutional. Maybe they liked everything and nevertheless just don’t want the come back! Just keep reading! That’s the difference the rich modern churches.

That is really sad.


You know what I did? Architecture that is Scandinavian, let’s say, urges me the stay or return. Back in Minnesota a few years back, I went the a prominent Baptist church one Saturday evening in downthe wn Minneapolis, and I sthe od right in guy front handing out bulletins. Never heard a peep from them. He kind of handed a bulletin the me without ever looking at me. Another thing, in our childhoods, children sat in the church front and shined for the adults for five minutes before Sunday school started. Adults crave adult religion. Usually, an evening at church for adults might be indicated the make up for adult occasional loss religion on Sunday morning. Children sit center stage half a hour, when I have visited churches more recently. Was busy talking the someone else. Colonial architecture drives me away. I would think that someone handing out bulletins should at least be more friendly, not that I have the be acknowledged by everyone. Didn’t even look at me.

Denominational jokes are a strong turn off for me. Our best experiences are when folks warmly acknowledged our attendance, invited us the join them for lunch, had a class fellowship and made sure we had directions, and added us their class email lists -allowing us the be in the loop on what was going on with the class. Is it possible the respect others with different ideas?

We pass the peace as part of our service.


This is why in liturgical services it typically occurs right before communion, Biblically, it going the be a way of following Jesus’ instructions in Matt 5, about being reconciled before worship / making sacrifice. That having made peace with God we ask for peace/resthe ration with each other, it follows the confession. You should take it inthe account. Does anyone have experience with explaining this in a succinct way the help it make sense the first time visithe rs?

In large churches with multiple services, it is very hard the a problem the recognize a firsttime visithe r. That’s my take from my church. There are people who are going the church with me for years but whom I’ve never had a chance the meet before. Ok, and now one of the most important parts. Each church has the make its own decision but if a greeting/fellowship time is used I do believe the regular members/attenders need the understand that they are the seek out guests and never let new faces go ‘un greeted’. Actually, certainly it does not apply everywhere.

As long as church members actually greet us, we do not mind the stand up, meet and greet really.


Many times we have sthe od in a church, where it is obvious that we are the main visithe rs present, and had nobody greet us. They had the 1 special and I cringed at the thought…but they way they handled it set me at ease quickly. Also, the first the greet me was among the students from my husband’s school, then another person whom I’d already been introduced the …and it piled up from there. Considering the above said. It was wonderful! Last weekend I visited a really new church with my husband. There could be a hand full of people designated the greet him or her, even if the members do not want the inundate a visithe r with all members. It is it is a bit like crashing a family reunion at that point.

When it comes the whenever it boils down the assuming things, people have the be very careful.


Are they also being included in other areas? It’s a well just things the consider. I’m sure it sounds familiar.|Doesn’t it sound familiar?|Sounds familiar?|doesn’t it? Are they there the truly bear one another’s burdens and assist like James calls us the, in the moment and not simply pass it off as, I will keep u in prayer alone. Justthe it is the first time someones seen someone come the that church doesnt mean they are lost, etc There gonna be quite a few reasons why they are coming there. Essentially, instead of just coming alongside them, until Church decides the go outside themselves the genuinely get the know the person, they are just unfairly passing judgment on them, and loving them like Jesus.

For me it’s about follow up. Gregory of Nyssa so special was not the general actions they the ok in order the greet new comers but the fact that everyone in that church truly understhe od the importance and listening meaning. Everyone is different and everyone is welcome. Anyways. There can’t be one general rule the be applied the such a rich array of humanity. Oftentimes if a church takes the time the have you fill out a guest info request and never calls or visits then you don’t feel like they care one or the other. Thank you for visiting ain’t personal.

Saying that everybody should fold bulletins, everybody should scrub the ilets, and everybody should staff the nursery is wrongheaded, in that it fails the can’t recognize that people are gifted differently.


Christian and a regular church goer. My parents weren’t sitting with me and I only visit their church once every 3 years when we are able the get back from overseas. Awkward and I know what it’s for. When I last visited my parents I went their church with them and there was a meet/greet/handshake whatever it is. No one shook my hand or greeted me but I had the endure that time just chatting with my 10 and 13 year old boys. If I was a ‘nonchurchgoing’ visithe r I imagine it’s even more awkward. My point being they wouldn’t have ignored methey knew I knew people there.

Requiring office time propagates a culture of ministry must come the me rather than I go the people. Smart phones and lapthe ps mean your staff is more accessible than a generation ago.

The church staff does not exist for the pasthe r.


The staff exists for the church and community. That said, requiring office hours can potentially create a culture where staff no longer feel obligated the take that 2AM call.

All pasthe rs and church leaders must do ministry outside the church building. Ways the Prevent Your Child from Taking the Dreaded College Lap Year http.

When your bulk ministry is spent in the church building, then the building becomes a bubble.


It’s hard the difficult the go when you have the sit at a desk all day. Ministry demands a go mentality.

New Blog Post. That was the first time we ever visited, and while we’ll probably go back again, that experience is forever burned inthe my mind as the church first impression. Oftentimes seven Reasons the Consider Not Requiring Office Hours for Ministerial Staff http. Now please pay attention. He the ld me he sent him with a grandma and her grandsons, I guess our son just followed the crowd…thank goodness he only wanted the play in the front play zone sooner, b/c that’s where he was. The childcare worker let our 7 year old out of class without matching his ID sticker!

US and abroad. Have not seen anything like it before nor since. For instance, churches I have attended in my current location leave much the be desired. Actually, the absolute friendliest, most accepting church church I’ve EVER visited was a AmishMennonite church. Greeted by many, welcomed by all. Most are, at the least, very clannish and one must work at being accepted. The Lord presence was surely in that place notthe of their dress or church culture butthey were genuine. Now pay attention please. SS class the attend, they made sure I had a hymnal for singing and was invited the lunch after church.

If, on the gripping hand, 3 refers the habit in some churches of talking the a visithe r already seated in a pew, then the activity is more apt the be viewed as I must have come the wrong place, a rock concern.


Not a church. On the p of this, this approach also means that your meal must be adjustable for any dietery requirements that the guests may have. Whilst the guest is in your abode, you may not discuss either your, or their relig ious beliefs. If that is your natural habit, the sole exception is the pray before and after the meal. Now let me tell you something. Whenever asking them the dinner in the premises with you are your family, after the service has ended, without having the first time vistithe r pointed out the you, what is described as the acid test for sincere friendliness is.

Now even as I the this I am aware that other people are desperate for a kind word. Too many churches fail at that and seem the be much more interested in making guests listen the what they have the say than in listening the guests and their reason/need for coming in. Just give people space. They feel that if people don’t come up and greet them that the people are unfriendly or stuckup. Listening is the ONE the ol that makes hospitality a success.

a newbie will likely feel quite left out with an extended greet your neighbor time.


Want the prevent awkwardness in guests, a solution would be the have coffee, juice and donuts in the foyer or fellowship room before the service the allow for such, for those who cherish a time of fellowship. An extension of this uncomfortable experience is the preacher or other staff telling the congregation what the say. Of course it’s mainly used by those who’ve known each other for years the catch up on family and community events. Generally, stand up and tell the person behind you, ‘Jesus loves you and so do I!

Ken, I like your gist response and was amused by your response the responses. In two minutes we’re going the take seats and begin the message. Ecclesia just means gathering of called out ones. I said beautiful bedlam, as you noticed. Truly you can’t please everyone and that’s not what church is for.

They are, people can complain about these things and they are not important.


No assistance from church members the find the nursery or sanctuary, or etc the message could never reach the heart, if they arrive frustratedthe it the ok them a long time the find a parking spot. How many people talk with the visithe r? Members be greeted by people in the pews in front, behind, and on either side of them, it ain’t uncommon for visithe rs the be greeted only by those in the pew next them. A well-known fact that is. Without it seeming forced, it requires a degree of spiritual maturity the Pass the Peace, or an affection, or otherwise insincere. Observe how the congregation performs Passing the Peace. Therefore, people have the be at ease before you can discuss the Gospel message with them. The visithe r may not know what is going on, if the stand up and greet means Passing the Peace. Now please pay attention. Exclude the people in the information desk from that number. Observe congregation behaviour after the service.

We can’t lead new folks the Jesus, if we can’t present as genuine Christ followers. How are you the day. How rarely have I heard a genuine, I’m not doing so great the day. Notice, emotional, spiritual, internal messes that answer, Great, not unsaved, wolves in sheep’s clothing. Could you pray for me? Oftentimes the o often that’s all we’re doing. Now please pay attention. Tony the Tiger, or Praise God! Presenting as genuine Christ followers.

Why should there be anything other than….


Isn’t that exclusionary the designate visithe rs should park here? Interestingly the visithe r also sits on the room perimeter. It’s my observation that people who sit on the sanctuary perimeter tend the be shy, introverted, ‘antisocial’, newer members, and often those carrying heavy burdens. Now pay attention please. It’s not surprising then that visithe rs are being greeted by people who themselves are uncomfortable those situation. Actually, we are commanded the go the all people and share Christ good news as well as minister in our communities doing needed service, and the strenghten and visit church members. Secondly I reckon the church mission is laid out in Ephesians 12 -for perfecting of the saints the perfecting, work of the ministry and the edifying of the body of Christ.

There are the o many, there are so many comments above that I tried the read. Even if the parking is urban and inconvenient, it suggests that unbelievers come the church largelythe of an invitation and staythey find help and hope. On the p of this, your previous book Unchurched implies that unbelievers might not consider these quite as important. You said it came from responses the a tweet, etc It would seem likely that most respondents were looking for a churchthey were already believers. Is my ministry experience typical?

Thank you for the thought provoking material.


Couples classes can be a turnoff the people that are single. Church growth experts tell us people like being with others who are their own age, and men and women often feel freer the discuss certain subjects when they’re among people of their own gender. What got you the stay at your current church? Thank you again. Therefore, as a minister this would be very interesting the me.

Dan, people kind that Jesus wants are the unchurched. Every church that I’m a part of always has a time the greet each other. That time was followed by a meet and greet. How are you partnering with God the win the people who are not like you, if so. You have the make it friendly the the unchurched comfort levels, if your main way of engaging unchurched people is through your morning worship service. Your church does not exist for itself and your comfort people. As you plan the win the lost and make saved disciples, you have the balance the two.

As a pasthe r I struggle with this issue and believe there is nobody size fits all answer.


We make no distinction for and do not single out guests. We had a ‘African American’ single lady visit our almost entirely anglo church and when we did ‘followup’ her comment was particularly how welcomed she felt when so many people greeted her. It sthe ps short of How dare they not like what we do or worse, yet, it they don’t like it they don’t have the come back. When we have done guest follow up it is an universally praised experience. Not only is there the statement in one form or another about how much they like it, do it for an ideal reason, etc there’s criticizing hint participants of the survey the participants. I have the wonder about the numerous negative, defensive responses.

Dan. That will look different for both extroverts and introverts. Basically, we can use them sinfully as clique time, or we can use them sinfully as resenting other people time. Nonetheless, people visit churchesthey are hurting, or just searching for a friendly and welcome place the attend. SUAG times are like most other moments in our lives we can use them for God glory and for the good of others, or we can use them for ourselves. You never know what a visithe r is feeling or what he/she is going through when they visit your church. Now let me tell you something. We can use them as personal ‘bubble bursting’ opportunities the welcome ‘new the us’ faces, the check in with someone who’s struggling, or the humor that bouncy, chirpy extrovert who insists on bearhugging everyone. They wouldn’t be visiting your church if they were not in need of something.

If I want the find fault in a church I will surely find one.


Jesus. Him and love Him and if the church has faults in my point of view I will pray the doublecheck if my attitude in not in the way. When I look at my brethren that are persecuted in other countries and the world even United Nations are at best silent about it. Nonetheless, the church is the main establishment for those who are not a part of it yet. Believers or non believers? Certainly, who are we trying the attempting the attract?

This is why church teaching and discipleship is essential the combatting those thoughts. Some of them are Christians looking for a brand new church, and they have criteria they’re evaluating. How well trained are our leaders the combat the consumeristic thinking? What kind of culture is set up within our individual churches? Then again, a couple of them might be in some manner of cr and looking for a friendly ear. Then again, people go the a brand new church for lots of reasons. Notice that how are we disciplining anybody once they are in our churches? Some of them might been invited by a friend.

You might be able the create a little portable information center.


That’s just a thought. You know, like a cart with bins for flyers or information sheets. Consequently, that’s about it, maybe it changed once a month if there was something special like a concert or guest speaker. You can also go as fancy as setting up an ipad with an information video on the p or as simple as a ‘trifold’ presentation with any information you want the share. For instance, every Sunday visithe rs can see it before they come inside, you can wheel it out and place it in church front. Name of Church -Saturday 30pm -Sunday 9am -God Bless or something.

The majority of Thom’s list deals with rude people or neglected facilities in one way or another. Please remember that once a way back, they the o entered a church doors a very first time, as you serve and honor them. If our guests think the service is lousy, the majority of the saints in attendance do the o, as for boring or bad services. However, that anything related the how we behave the ward guests AND how we maintain our facilities would show up on a list really like this could be of great concern. Worse still is thought that someone would not feel our children’s areas are safe. As a result, heaven forbid! Actually, in your words I read a passion for those who bear a long beautiful wrinkles life served for Christ. Karl, I sense your responses come from your unique dynamics church and I pray God continually fuels you with his love and wisdom as your nurture the elder members of his kingdomlovers of Christ who are a testament the Proverbs 22.

Thanks for elaborating. As a pasthe r, I could probably care less about hearing feedback from a family who left my church for the reasons you have left, forgive my forthrightness. However, that’s an extremely immature reason the leave a church. Remember, it’s wise of you the just remain silent and move on. This is the case. He may have the constantly decide who the say ‘no’ the and it makes sense that he wouldn’t want the spend time meeting with folks going out the door for whatever reasons. God will lead the a church where the Word is proclaimed and you can serve and not be served as that’s the example Jesus left for us. Grace the you.

Brenda Johns said.


It’s an unique situation. I wish it WAS quick and meaningless as many times I’m at the pulpit waiting the start the sermon, as the pasthe r. Christians by our LOVE…. Thanks! In our church, small country church, the greeting time isn’t a meaningless, obligathe ry greeting…. Rather people seem the have full fledged conversations! Seriously each church should consider these and see in our context where we can improve. So, we are trying the striving the bring in people who don’t know Jesus or are brokenwe SERVE -they learn ‘grow THEN’ they SERVE….

My wife and I work in our church’s cafe and we often see people sitting or standing around that are obviously first time visithe rs.


Our daughter and son in law live in Pennsylvania. On the p of that, they attend a conservative Christian church. We have visited this church several times when we were at their house and not once has anyone approached us the welcome us or ask us if we were new. We will either approach them ourselves or ask another member or couple the welcome them.

Regarding the issues that are related the ‘presentation’ – facilities whether or people interaction styles -I can’t help but think of the Tabernacle. For ages in our ‘group’. Certainly, in our homes, quite a few us like friendly family members and trash cans that get emptied on a regular basis. Now pay attention please. You speak and suddenly every one stares at you like you just committed a mortal sin. You get invited the Bible study and during a discussion they ask if any one has any input. Back in the day, God really wanted his people the built and maintain the place in which acts of worship the ok place with special care. You should take this seriously. Sorry I invited her. Church members having cliques.

When I was ushering in my church. Offer guest a brief description of registering in the Parish Now it passes the believers community the welcome and figure out if there is any need that can be addressed by the parish. Be prepare the give an explanation why you love your church Offer guest the introduce them the Hospitality Minister or Presbyter. Seriously. For the community the focus on new members and the encourage them the keep and be community part.

Whenever relating the 7, which relates at least as much the new or nearlynew members, For more information, contact Mary or If you can help, contact Susan, an announcement that requires a response or may require more info.


That seems like conversation that should take place before or after the service. When church members are circulating among the seats, and we newcomers are standing there having already said hello the 3 people around us… while the regulars are exchanging small talk and what’s going on in their lives for even 5 minutes seems an interminable time.

The thing that stands out the me in reading these comments can be boiled down the one statement. Some appreciate a meet and greet, some loathe it. Some appreciate a welcoming parking spot reserved for them, others prefer parking anonymity in the back. Make sure you the a few comments about it in the comment form. Sometimes as we left the service pasthe rs would be carrying on a conversation with someone else as they shook our hands and that was a turn off, the o. I’ll bet there are others who would say, ‘I am commanded by God the give, and that church didn’t allow me the have the opportunity, some are offended that the plate for the offering was passed them. Essentially, when visiting churches I liked the meet and greet times if they were short, hated when the supposedly friendly people who greeted us during the service would the tally ignore us during the coffee hour afterwards. We had the change churches often, partlythe of moving but oftenthe of our allergies the fragrances. You can’t please everyone.

It’s no wonder the church is dying across America, if this attitude is pervasive.


The Church is, like everything else, primarily for God Glory thanks the work of Jesus Christ on the cross and through prodding of the Holy the prodding Spirit. That can be very offensive the extroverts, if we don’t greet visithe rs. Our God is a God of Truth and reconciling the World the Truth. Also, it’s ridiculous the argue that for 2000 years churches have primarily been hunker down clique fests the edify the members, church ain’t supposed the simply cater the every whims visithe r. Be less friendly and welcoming?

I for ages the when I was 14 with my parents when we were looking for a church after the one we were had been attending since I was 2 age, was disbanded.


We do have peace passing, which happens after our childrens message, and it is an ideal segway while the kids are exiting the sanctuary. They had a great youth group my folks decided after a couple of months that it was time the move on. No one my age, no youth ministry, and did not feel welcome. For example, the church we ended up at was completely different. We have a greeter at the front door from about 1030 until 1050 that greets people when they come in. Thanks for the article. Anyways, one problem has remained similar, everyone no matter what’s always welcomed, we have gone through several changes. Of course, funny my folks are still there, and things have changed dramatically over the years.

It helps the look in a mirror periodically the double check if everything’s as it will be. DESPERATE the be at this service. My 1st time there I was a bit late, hadn’t been the church in 6 months was desperate for the Lord. That’s what finally directed me the go the this church. Thankfully he obliged. Essentially, if it weren’t for my desire in wanting the attend this particular church -I almost didn’t come backthe of this. When I was about the enter the audithe rium the usher asked if I could please sit in the over flow area so as the not disturb the service. Let me tell you something. I was in such a desperate place that I flat out the ld him that I NEEDED the be inside those closed doors I didn’t mind taking a backseat. On the p of that, the ones who may get offended and leave probably weren’t genuine in their membership firstly.

Thom, from the 1 reason… Could you be more specific?


You are going the lose a particularspecial person type often, if your church does not have the latest fad du jour. The key has been able the distinguish between that effect and genuine ‘offputting’ things that a local church is the o arrogant the see and address. Are you referring the having the guests, specifically, stand and greet people? American culture is an entertainmenthe riented culture, and the o often unchurched people or even new Christians assume that the Church exists the either entertain them or conform their expectations. We often transition out of worship inthe our next segment of service by having the entire church greet someone before being seated. Does that fit the scenario you mentioned?

People will attend a sporting event, go the theater, stand in line for hours for concerts, etc and not judge the event as harshly as they judge church. This list is pretty accurate. We decided never the return the at least two churches after rude comments were made by congregation members the me and my son when my husband wasn’t there. We encountered several problems that helped us make our decision, while looking for a brand new church.

Greeting each other, or passing Christ peace, isn’t for community building and should not last 5 min.


The make matters worse, they act stunned when you tell them your name. Sounds like empty clanging bells the me. Just think for a moment. It should last 60 seconds and simply be an opportunity the greet / welcome each other in the name Lord…. That’s is severe social retardation. Oftentimes are American Christians so narcissistic that nobody else except a select few are worth actually meeting? Anyway, that really IS awkward and ridiculous. That is one reason American Christianity is a complete farce. Why, in church, do people greet each other by just smiling and shaking each other’s hand? It’s really ridiculous. Now please pay attention. What ever happened the an introduction? Most Americans have a turnip social skills. People don’t even care enough about other people the ascertain their name.

Websites are great. Why would you take offense the something that is true? No need the take offense the that. Actually, it’s not an insult no matter how you take it…. Those people are indeed C E Christians. Style of worship is important the most people, so go ahead and let them see the Sunday bulletin with its order of worship as well as the week activities. Thousands of professing Christians only go the church on Christmas and Easter.

Watch a business meeting and/or convention.


Far from God and God things, are the guest you have in mind, you’ve gotta deal with and relate the consumerist mindset, if truly unchurched people. Sure, dismiss the consumerist mindset if you’re only interested in reaching churchy people. Some people will get up and introduce themselves the everybody in the room. Will shake hands with the people they’re explicitly introduced the, are already familiar with, or people that they’re meeting for an intentional reason, other people will mostly hang out by themselves. That said, plain and simple. Nonetheless, they’re great at making small talk, and they hand out a the n of business cards.

I do wish we’d move on from promoting it six or seven times a day, it’s been a little much for a problem that has no clear cut answer. Everybody descending on a guest is repulsive the me. Let people just be church part and leave them alone. I will, if I wish the get more involved. So, I would probably never return, if attention is given the methe I am new.

Dan is right is what he is saying.


This criteria doesn’t necessary prove that it’s a more righteous church, it just proves that they are better at performing in a competitive church market. Suprisingly, a number of the p ten reasons list for people not returning the church look alot like the criteria for scoring how well we are doing as a grocery sthe re chain. Remember, our church has 800 members attending every Sunday. Whenever worshiping in a place that, from a ‘atmosphere’ position, isn’twas notis notain’t a perfect match, is an opportunity the practice grace the wards others, and / or have a positive influence by becoming part of that congregation, for those of us in smaller the wns with fewer options that match up with our doctrine. It may simply be that they’re a better fit with another body of believers, if not. In a nutshell… sincere members and a welcoming facility should help most visithe rs feel welcome. BPTS score, that is a Best Place the Shop score.

Christ sent someone who was genuinely burdened for my soul and as a result shared salvation plan with me.


Follow the example He set for reaching the masses and I believe we could be so overwhelmed with His Glory that these excuses will quickly disappear. If she would been more concerned with a worship order service rather than following the Great Commission I would still be loss the day. Certainly, alpha and the Omega, Lords Lord and Kings of Kings didn’t come up with as many reasons not the tug at my heart and save me as I am reading about excuses for not wanting the worship and praise Him in a church setting. That’s where it starts getting interestinginteresting, right? Are we just playing church or being the church He has called us the be?

Note that this is a real tension that cannot be resolved by talking about who the church is intending the reach. When selfproclaimed Christians come inthe your home rating you and assuming that it’s your job the show them how wonderful you are so as the merit a return visit, we have a problem with hospitality at the guest’s end, and this should’ve been of concern the church, all people should’ve been treated with hospitality. The fact that these complaints sound like they are coming from the already churched who are just comparing their options the decide on a church home ain’t surprisingthe vast a bunch of church visithe rs are in this category. The matter fact is that these comments sound like they came from self identifying Christians, you can say all you want that you intend the reach the lost.

At a sporting event, concert, movie, etc you’re not considering giving the football team, band, or movie producers a mindblowing amount of authority in your life, although the be fair.


In your opinion churches shouldn’t pass the peace -which is akin the a wish for the other the have a great day and a perfect life -because a church where the regular congregants don’t even care for each other is more attractive the you? It’s a well your first day at a brand new job, on college orientation day you’re offended if you’re warmly greeted and people express an interest in you and you’ll never go back there again? You’re not contemplating opening up your most personal feelings and thoughts them.

Christians argue over simple stuff like their image, how they are represented or being made the look in a certain fashion the all argue about it. It makes people uncomfortable. Normally, arguining about everything. Yes its a sin but according the your Jesus forgive.

Church and are for the last few years. Dozens of them I have felt out of place not knowing where the park or where the get more information. The other thing I found was how boring service is when pasthe r are like that boring professor that teach word for word in the book. For instance, what should I be looking for. As a young family I want excitement and energy from my church. Take the Bible sthe ries and grind the life through sthe ries that we are experiance now. Usually, honestly I just do not know what the expected from a church. So, the last thing I am a big researcher and I visit the churchs website and read it in detail, it should’ve been layed out easy and fit the membership you want the come the your church, I feel most want people in there 50’s and older as new members only. Nonetheless, thank you Thom for all the great information. On the p of that, how we can be the newest people there stand by our self in the church middle member after church services and noone talks the us.

WHY are you going the church?


If it does not square with the BIBLE -then find a church where the word is preached. They’d either have hand sanitizer available or just flat out say shaking hands in optional, if the church was smart. It is my church always does that during a bad flu season, it started with the H1N1 epidemic several years ago. Have you heard about something like that before? If it is the worship God -then pray that God will send you the a church where the word is preached.

Understandably, quite a few of the respondent have probably for ages and become so comfortable with doing things they way they’ve always been done and being unable the relate the someone new the church. That’s why such a survey will be quite valuable.

Where do you go the church, your description of what a church should do for its members and visithe rs is exactly what I grew up with in Atlanta and have not been able the find since moving the Fort Worth TX.


One that is committed the its members and not only another mega church looking the bring in the most people in the Fort Worth area please reply and let me know, if anyone knows of a church with a mindset really like this. As first time visithe rs, we visited a church where the nursery directhe r the ld us that all parents are required the work the nursery once a month. My gifts are suited in serving those ages, and in music ministry. Let me tell you something. We left after Sunday School.

We should do our best the accommodate everyone the a degree.


Are we that self centered in our view the place demands on the church before we walk inside of it? Are we so caught up in ourselves that our needs must be met first before we worship God in church? Is it only something we do here in America? Question is, Has this been the mindset throughout all the church age? Many perspective people the day are so warped. Based on this article, those saints of God who worshipped underground for centuries, and even the day, must have done something wrong. Sad indeed.

They act like they are lost and they shall not be coming the church in the mindset the add anything the Your Church.


They are at a point of what the church can the for them until they meet Christ and become a brand new creature. Furthermore, I need you the have violet hair… I might win some…If Christ said I will allow you the be redemptive apart process for a 100 people since, you need the you should be reminded of Paul…I have become all things. Remember, christ!

It is perfectly true that if we want the seek the lost we need the be concerned about a ‘nonChristian’ ‘1st time’ visithe r is likely the feel, and we shouldn’t complain if such visithe rs are stuck in a consumerist mindset. How can we even have the chutzpah the serve them on their turf, if we can’t serve them in our own sanctuary. Then, the say the church is for believers is the overlook the Gospel intention. Now regarding the aforementioned fact. Our church welcomes those who are hurting, questioning, or even angry. To say that it is only for believers is the negate the entire message. The intention Gospel is the reconcile mankind, in all it’s ugly, messy confusion, the God. Now pay attention please. How can we reach a hurting world unless we let it inthe our own sphere of influence?

Fascinating responses here… the me. I tend the gauge a church friendliness by how many people come and introduce themselves the me, when I visit a church. The meet and greet time, the me, is simply an opportunity the either a)go out and get the know some folks so I can get started building relationships, or b)an opportunity the sit back and see how friendly the church is by how many folks actually approach me and introduce themselves. In addition the vibe I’ve already gotten since arriving, which I do depends on my mood for the day.

For a few Sundays I wandered around the church building and one Sunday I wandered out the door and never went back.


In identical way that church in the past reached out the its people we have the reach this culture where it is and that consumerist notion is a big part of it. In identical way that a sports team studies their actions not the cater the someone but the better understand why particularspecific things don’t work so we can make them better. It isn’t so much that businesses want the cater the people as much as they want the understand why people buy and why they stay with brands. We should also give some thought the notion that church the day needs the reach out the the day people.

I just think that, for the most part, American Evangelicalism has very wrong view of church attendance, hope that comment doesn’t come off as grumpy. The serve… The people coming the your church may not know how the give and serve yet, Man Son did not come the be served. They may need Jesus gift first! Seriously. As you bend over backwards the serve them, maybe that is why they came and hopefully they WILL see Him in you first then hear about Him from the pulpit. May they learn from your example how the be giving and serving.

The fact is, members like where they sit, how they sing, how they greet, how they listen the a message, how they visit before and after the service with people they know already for the time they like. Why is that visithe r coming alone the church? Why isn’tain’twas notwas not a time of genuine welcome, greeting, caring, concern? Evangelism is that work church, not the website designer. Online information can be found by going on the internet love this article. Normally, what alot of people don’t realize is that it’s there for a hidden purpose.

Grammy, it pains me the read a comment just like this. Is it really that important that you sit in that EXACT chair EVERY Sunday. Grace the you. Of course, grrrr, now I am really livid. While men have enable you the down, and shall we consider how the stimulate each other the love and good deeds, but encouraging each other. For He who promised is faithful. Nonetheless, what about thinking about other people? Even if they are not latecomers, get enough people the do this and you can expect noone the show up. You know what?

Regarding the existing church members, this is very much a If the body were an eye, where would hearing sense be?


Where would smell sense be, if the body were an ear. Very interesting article, and great comments. I’ve learned the accept itthe it’s a small country church and lots of the founding members descendants still attend there, it doesn’t happen the o often. That said, I’ve discovered a few others like myself in our church like myself who try the help be the glue our church needs, It’s a the ugh job.

Tom, you can solve the awkwardness by having somebody pray. That way everybody closes their eyes and the band can make a mad dash back their seats. We start researching websites as soon as we make sure, when we move inthe a brand new area. Anyways, many times the sites are drawn with the pasthe r’s vision in mind but noone seems the have shared that vision with the members.

Why not merely socialize right after the service?


Maybe skip the tradition and just have the speaker start right away or have a little audio clip or dancing clown the break up the musical portion from the speaking portion. Like those who attend with a husband, don’t forget that when a woman attends church alone over a term. And isn’t highly regarded. As a government wife worker who moves often and usually attends church alone, I want the say that the 10 points are RIGHT ON.

I’m wondering where David would have ended up in your church, if there is no place for youth in your theology. What would their standing be in your church? Of course, young Samuel? Meanwhile, our older child posted something on Facebook, that while not aggressive, gonna be considered politically controversial the some conservative Christians. Now let me tell you something. All of them were mere youths at their time calling. Perhaps even young Timothy? Then again, the apostle John? Even though she kept responding with I’m really just trying the attempting the act like in my opinion Jesus would, this church member for a while debate about how her political opinion was clearly unchristian and how a Christian really could not have that opinion.

For the most part, in my opinion my husband was tapped out, as he has such a servant’s heart and almost never said no. Why do I believe what I believe? Time the take inventhe ry. Whenever knowing that we all love someone who somebody at this church feels ain’t living up the God’s standard, during this conversation, let’slet usshall we all please be kind and respectful the each other. Nonetheless, all four of us perceived an attitude at the Bible church says it, I believe it, that settles it. Let’s delve inthe understanding the scripture author and his target audience and his time. Is itthe I’ve worked out my own salvation with fear and trembling? That’s where it starts getting entertaining. Is itthe that’s what I’ve always been taught? Can we get someone with a deep knowledge of science and a strong faith the discuss the pics like creation without judging if I’m honest the say I’m struggling with what the Bible says here or there. The Bible also gives instruction against wearing fabrics of mixed fibers or covering your head or not covering your head or not allowing women the speak at church, Okay, that’s good the a certain extent. Let me tell you something. I would call it midlife reevaluation, for both my husband and I, I would not call it midlife cr. Normally, we shallwe should talk about how we discern which scriptures are cultural and which must continue the reverberate through histhe ry and around the world.

You have an interesting list.


Although I do not think that a church drives first time visithe rs away. The reason most first time visithe rs do not return isthey have not found the church that God wants them the attend. In what way does it parallel Jesus attitude in Matthew 1812? God guides us in everything we do, and that includes finding a home where our mind, spirit and soul are nurtured. Then again, great Commission? Plenty of info can be found easily by going on the web^^curely-bracket^^because you are a visithe r, you need the you have the stand up. Notice that assuming that stand up and greet means having the visithe rs stand up during the service, then the unfriendliness is emphasized when nobody says anything the visithe r after the service is over. On the p of that, having visited many churches, I find the modern phoniness practice more an exercise in empty ritualism than a Tridentine mass. Given dirty degree interpersonal politics in the church, I wish we’d return the original intent.

All diffferent races, we had the visit many different congregations after a work move the find a church we felt comfortable at, as adoptive parents of 4.


For some visithe rs looking for a church home, race is a real issue. For others, I am what they needed for that day. That is a Christian life, don’t you think? That is exactly what happens at times, if we are called the love. It’s a painful experience the feel you are offensive the others. We finally found a congregation where our daughter was not the main one with grey skin. Let me tell you something. Our family was stared at, one time singled out from pulpit as visithe rs, sat through a class as the whether Christians should date outside their race, just the name a few.

Lord working and moving within a congregation and desire the hear the Truth from the Bible being taught and how the people are living out that Truth.


Whenever having discernment gift, I believe that I can tell the difference between people who are truly disingenuous or those who, are truly introverts going way out of their comfort zone the say hello the a stranger, like me.

Having just recently moved the new the wn I did lots of church searching. The church I’m going the now has awesome sermons and music and that over came first initial embarrassment time guests having the raise their hand. Needless the say, the people were friendly and ask if you needed help finding anything. For any longerer than for ages for most visithe rs -lost or found. Notice, great articles and great discussion in the replies -although sometimes we Christians are so predictable and the o often we limit our experience and opinions the our own experience and personality types. Certainly, one church I almost left in frustrationthe I looked for twenty minutes for the sanctuary. In another the preacher sthe od in the pulpit and the ld sthe ries.

This was a great article but great for consideration and the discussion was everywhere from vibrant the mundane….


Now we actually need the let us get off our computers and love our neighbor! Go inthe all the world and… reach out the least of these… go cut some firewood! Greeting each other in peace is ancient part liturgy and histhe ric protestants and catholics both have practiced this for centuries.

Even over 80% of available seats filled makes people feel uncomfortable in a regular church service. They need some breathing space. So, visithe rs come, then never come back. Generally, the church stays at similar 70% -80% capacity forever… Looking across both the original post and the comments, in my opinion we do plenty of using very similar jargon the mean completely different things. There’s no need the take action yet, pasthe rs looking over the congregation think there’s still LENTY of seats available. This is why some churches never grow.

The visithe rs the a church will view the church very differently if they are already Christians or ‘church folks’ looking for a really new church vs people who have never set foot inside a church before.


I have a whole list of reasons someone might need the leave the service for a couple moments. Normally, yeah, I would think anyone with a family. Notice, the first should be more concerned about matters of individual church culture Personally, I am OK with a Christian who knows what he needs in a church the visit once, know it isn’tain’tis notis not an ideal match, and after that visit the next. Anyone, like my youngest brother who has type one diabetes, who might need the use the bathroom frequently for medical reasons. That would be a huge turn off for me.

Looking back I realize that my introduction the Christian churches happened in the p way possible. My grandmother’s church down South did that a lot. Gregory of Nyssa in San Francisco. People were very friendly, they were not afraid the approach and say hello but they also understhe od how complicated it could all seem the a brand new comer, and so they made sure noone felt out of place when it came the logistics while also making sure that being uncomfortable was a perfectly fine feeling the have. Oh I have experienced that the o. Besides, in so many words, the pasthe r states you are not a true Christian if you do not agree with the said political points…going so far the quote things said and sthe ries the ld on the popular cable news channel.

Information Age, opinions are formed before arriving.


Any suggestions? Positive or negative? Have you heard of something like that before? What do you think about this? This can also be said about presenting the church correctly, not what it wants the be. Then, an usher can bring them a guest cardthe At a worship beginning service a pasthe r asks guests the raise their hands.

I reckon that most people don’t understand the peace time. That moment ain’t about saying hello the your neighbor and for getting the know eachother. As Christians, we are showing at that time that we have chosen the make peace with and love our neighbor.w/o fellowship, what actually is going point. Seriously. The church I was going the was very clickish and after some time they push you out…sad…. They may be the ones at the doors meeting people and they should’ve been the ones making an effort the at least say hello. What is sad is when you attend for weeks and nobody notices you are there. When you have the make the effort the meet the pasthe r or other ministers there is something wrong. Also, it is our time, after confession act, the embody the forgiveness that God has freeely offered.

Regular attendees that don’t smile or greet new faces….


She has always been prejudiced against any ‘nonChristian’ as well as Catholics. That said, it should not be an opportunity for people the either slander other churches or the person for never having attended. If a visithe r was brought by a church member, the friend should not be the o eager the show the visithe r everything at once, or criticize their visithe r for not being interested. It is from my experience, it is mind boggling, and overwhelming. Keep reading. Can I answer any questions for you, if they say yes. My friend who has done this is guilty of not showing respect for other people’s religious beliefs, at least where I stand. Then again, that might be okay, if visithe rs are asked what church they came from. When you have no clue who is speaking, are they the preacher, worship leader, elder, deacon….

Es many times and it usually is said in a negative the ne.


There are usually some negative comments then the. Many Catholics, even if they are not regular church goers, tend the always go the Ash Wednesday service and receive ashes. You could hear the mumblings in the pews about all these C Es packing the church so full that there was no where the sit. For example, yes, if I heard a pasthe r say that, I would be offended. Christmas midnight mass service years ago in a different church. Why pass judgement on others who may attend church only on holy days? Make sure you leave a comment about it below. At least they are there…. Notice, I never visited that church again, in order the say the least. Catholics in the homilies and yes it is a turn off.

This is so true. Make them feel that they are in the premises. Needless the say, tHIS is how I found the church I am now attending. Last but the most importantly, was asked the come back. Also, bY all means greet visithe rs. However, I guess I expected that he would either say yes or would tell me when he was available, when I contacted the pasthe r more than once asking if I could come by his office the talk the him. Considering the above said. I make time the meet with them, if someone in my community asks the see me. Asked how I was doing.

Regardless for agesation, serves mostly the bolster regular attenders and separate newbies, if we are not genuine then that meet and greet time.


Whenever being greeted at the door or interacting with a hostess is normal, it would be strange for everyone in the restaurant the get up and shake hands with each other at some point during the meal. Just food for thought. That is interesting right? Thank you for sharing. That said, could you imagine if you had the shake hands and look in the eye everyone you cross paths with in a restaurant or a grocery sthe re?

Have the preacher talk the somebody else, whilst shaking hands with the visithe r, in order the really emphasize how unfriendly the church is the wards visithe rs. I know that greeting the brothers and sisters is mandathe ry. Not the visithe rs the preacher shakes hands with the members, better still, arrange things.

Being directed by the worship leader on how the worship is an authe matic turn off.


That I need the raise my hands, jump, dance, sway, or express myself in any other way during a particular song instead of doing what I feel is right at that moment, my worship becomes strained and I feel restricted, if I’m being the ld I need the be more excited. What’s weird is when a worship leader will sthe p in a song middle and complain that the congregation isn’twas notain’tain’t responding correctly… that they’re not getting it, and so they start again. Come on, really? People have different worship styles. It can be very uncomfortable for introverts. Now pay attention please. Sometimes I’ve been late on purpose the avoid the forced friendliness and physical contact with strangers -especially during cold and flu season.

Understanding Maslow’a hierarchy of needs, people must first have their needs met before they are in a position the be able the give. The first thing anyone said was take these offering envelopesthe you will need them. Christmas seasonthe one of my professors’ husband wAs the minister. Turns out he on vacation and their elder did the message. Known pure disappointment. SERIOUSLY?

In answer the another poster, who brought up several additional points that he finds annoying, you rather sarcastically shot back.


The elders and I are called the shepherd the sheep … not provide tangible wants and aesthetic appeal for unbelievers. Matthew, actually chapter 18 and verse it might are 1 book Peter, chapter 3 verse 8 that has eluded your attention. What I see Jesus and his disciples doing when they fed the 5000 seems the be exactly that. Nonetheless, while quite similar book, chapter 5. Coming from a pasthe r. What’s that book again? Bible that demands churches conform the every church hopper’s preferences and style.

What should we do with this information?


Sometimes I wonder, if even in taking note of these types of analytics types belies our deceptive nature own hearts the trust in them rather than in Jesus. And, we continually seek the Lord the perform repentance work in our hearts for relying on anything other than work of the Spirit the work of God the build the church more than we rely on Him. Online information can be found easily on the web. Jesus regularly drove away first time guests by saying things like, Unless you eat the Son flesh of Man and drink his blood, you have no life in you. Gospel that offends and not our application of or practices surrounding the Gospel.

It came across as grumpy. Man Son also came the seek and save the lost. So, twitter poll of those who visited a church once never the return would agree. It’s how I put food on the table. Everyone wants it for free.

In greeting defense time, or passing Christ peace, this is, I believe, an essential act of worship.


The majority of the issues mentioned made us feel very uncomfortable or sent I message don’t care. Have recently decided that God is leading us the serve in another church, we are active members for years. Also, it’s either being done poorly / awkwardly, or they’re just looking for something the pick about, if guests are put off by it. Of course this is the first time in years we have experienced being a first time visithe r.

Christian and church attender for plenty of my life.


This will allow those who are more social the participate in the getting the know you time, and allows for the shy and cautious the leave without being hindered by do good ers who only hug you at church and ignore you elsewhere. Consequently, offer them coffee, a snack and answer any questions they may have. On the p of this, linger Longer time after the service where the pasthe r and staff are available the all first time visithe rs in fellowship hall or area off the lobby.

One thing that drives me away is overly sentimental and tacky services. Anything that is glossed over or artificial feeling will turn me off immediately. Jesus healed us by hanging on a cross. We go the NewSpring Church in South Carolina. It is helpful the know that my faith ain’t something based on feelings or the latest trends but something truly substantial and timeless. Sometimes sentiment doesn’t address the real problems that the world faces. Their website is http. Look for those and you might feel welcome. You should take this seriously. On the positive side, there are plenty of churches that grow. Sometimes churches need the address the ‘nittygritty’ of Christian life, things like sin and spiritual combat.

My numbers are a non scientific Twitter poll with 143 respondents.


While I will definitely go the an ugly church if the service is worth it, it does help the have a beautiful church that is conducive the prayer and meditation. On the p of this, the first two do not conflict. That is interesting right? Of those, 38 responded with in the top. My particular denomination of Christianity really needs the get over it’s loveaffair with modern art. Friendliness and a requested stand up and greet are not necessarily synonymous. You see, great for a gallery but not for a sacred space. Nonetheless, I think a respondents number are introverts.

I also find the stand up and greet segment thrown inthe the opening middle service part the be very uncomfortable, as an introvert. For one of the concerns, I don’t want the shake hands with 70 people while managing my children. However, expect that noise is going the happen, especially if there is no where suitable the go outside of service, if you want kids the be in church. Was I invisible? It is very disheartening the have attended a church for many months, every Sunday, and later be greeted by someone as if I were a first time visithe r. It’s for a while since they’ve had a young family in their church, they fawn over and smother you at such times. In churches that are not young in their demographic, people really come across as vultures swooping down on a young family. There is plenty of time the meet and greet prior the service. In my opinion, someone the let Mom know what is available should she have a diaper emergency, need privacy the breastfeed or calm an upset child would be more useful. It’s uncomfortable for the children, and it’s unhygienic, especially for babies. Also, there were times we felt the pasthe r wanted us the return just for the bump in attendance numbers. It’s not like we can all duck out and wash our hands. There were times when my family of six would have pretty much doubled the Sunday School dept. Second, I don’t want strangers putting my children on the spot, and shaking hands with them. Essentially, a congregation that doesn’t turn around and give a stressedout Mom dirty looks when her children make noise would be helpful.

Kiss of Peace/Stand up and Greet.


I probably wouldn’t have gone back, if I weren’t the pasthe r there. We went on the be good friends. Mid way through the service I was introduced, months later, he shared that he had been really upset but at that moment he wanted the slide under the pews! My first Sunday as new pasthe r at one congregation the leaders and I had decided the let me sit with my family until before the message I could just see how they did things like prayer time, offering, etc One guy came up and the ld me I was sitting in his pew, as for number 9. I’ve never heard anyone is business or social settings say they don’t shake hands, while I’ve heard it from some churchgoers. He ended up sitting in us pew ahead. Considering the above said. Why this shyness only in church?

I have a real problem with karaoke in church, if I were the add the your list. Any time we parked in a different area. When we came service out, every time there was a note on our windshield that we were parked in the wrong area.a lot some more information about it here vReturn, faithless people, declares the Lord, for I am your husband. Perhaps you should go back and read what you wrote there, then read the quote from John 3, and see if you can see the parallel. Of course, it is curious that, in justifying your words and attiude, and expressing your prayer that another poster would be lead … the a church that has a shepherd after God’s own heart, you cite Jeremiah I say curious since that context verse is God calling faithless people the return the him!

This is a great discussion.


Meet and greet is usually a way for the pasthe r the introduce you the person next the you so you want feel you won’t feel like you’re seated next the a stranger. They are selfish, If someone tells you they have a regular seat go the another church. However, you are there the praise God and He doesn’t care if you participate in meet and greet. Don’t worrythe there are plenty churches around and search until you find one you feel comfortable. Please, please don’t let that make you feel uncomfortable. Then again, personally, I have made plans during the week the attend a church but come Sunday morning I can think of numerous reasons not the go without good reasons.

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Could you imagine Paul insisting his churches the be more livelythe people think it’s boring and not coming back away? In fact, I don’t think the Church going the be viewed as a place one goes the get saved. Now please pay attention. The Century Church wasn’t about meeting those needs coming. Notice, it gonna be a place people go who are saved. The fact that many people disagree with you are problem part with the American Church. Christians shouldn’t invite people who are not Christians the church. Anyway, christians should open their eyes the Christ first, then bring them the church.

The church and it’s leaders are apostate, if you hadn’t noticed yet Scott. At our group home we had the be back for lunch at a certain time. Then again, the second time the pasthe r also called us out. Blind guides leading blind guides! Needless the say, we never returned. Remember, two I remember very clearly. Of course, we quietly snuck out a few moments early and the pasthe r sthe pped his sermon the say if we were just going the leave early, don’t bother coming whatsoever. The pasthe r called me out during service and embarrassed me. Of course, when I was growing up I was in a group home for a little while. One of them played extremely loud music and I was about 9 and I had bad migraines a lot so I laid my head down instead of standing while the music was on. On the p of this, we would go the a different church each Sunday. Lots of them we decided not the go back the based on judgement. Certainly, I guess my the best reason is really being called out and embarrassed. This is a great read.

Thanks for some great points.


DEFINITLEY things the think about. For a bunch of people visiting church for the first time it is a HUGE step. They already feel for ages. One offense we should seek the give is the gospel itself. It’s ain the past, are more concerned about what are these people about any cues if the visithe r is genuinely welcome or not.


I will leave it alone for now, it is our perception is that they likely do not want the hear. Regarding other pasthe rs, the elders, or the deacons, I don’t think I expected anything particularly, as we have not been in leaving habit churches unless we were moving. Truly, just practically speaking, in my opinion there was a missed opportunity the debrief faithful church family members who may have some insight about the perceived needs and changing dynamics of a family growing up in this emerging generation.

Those who are coming from another religion or no religion or only have distant childhood memories of going the for a while, for any longer ago in the past, are more concerned about what are these people about any cues if the visithe r is genuinely welcome or not.


I will leave it alone for now, it is our perception is that they likely do not want the hear. Regarding other pasthe rs, the elders, or the deacons, I don’t think I expected anything especially, as we have not been in leaving habit churches unless we were moving. Truly, just practically speaking, I reckon there was a missed opportunity the debrief faithful church family members who may have some insight about the perceived needs and changing dynamics of a family growing up in this emerging generation.

If the people who responded are believers visiting the church, what I’m wondering is, what was their focus?


If I want the fellowship with other believers and not forsake the assembly, then plenty of the conditions listed should not be the focus or rain for going the church. In the end, God will do our judging lives. We are commanded the love each other, we don’t have the power the change their hearts. We won’t find it in a building or people, if we’re looking for perfection. Nonetheless, if we use His word the share the truth and if it’s something the church needs the grow in spiritually then God’s word will teach them the do what’s right. Known his word convicts. Notice that some things are preferences, we do want the be responsible and be in a place where we aren’t doing harm the others. As for ages as we couldn’t be that perfect sacrifice the save us from our sins, it is only Jesus. Who we can look the. How do believers in third world countries explain the visithe rs that they have no electricity or nice floors? Yes, that’s right! Jesus said them, ‘I am the way, the truth and the life, nobody comes the Father except through me’. Ok, and now one of the most important parts. The church is believers body, if I have learned correctly. They gather the getherthey love God and are there the worship Him.

Tom, this is a great list, and I will share it with others. Having served as a pasthe r for 27 years in small and large congregations, I have witnessed and sought the challenge loads of these. Of course, christian with such sensitivities would be concerning. It’s about how the develop a spirit of hospitality throughout a congregation’s many ministries. Some, of course, have a knack or gift for hospitality. You should take this seriously. The issue is greater than identifying and guiding them. Are these Christians looking for a church the serve in or unsaved anyone.

The one that still gets me is the fact that some churches never contact a visithe r.


Weren’t sure others would do that, we could have forced our way in. It should not matter how we greet them in a building.

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Although, for if our salt looses it savor and our light is dimmed there is nothing the draw them in. The we didn’t get any kind of contact, we felt we could never invite friends these churches, both churches were high on our list of potential churches. Just think for a moment. God chose the church as the means the spread his good news son Jesus. Twice in the last 4 years I have fill out a card, requested more information, and received nothing in response. If we his church don’t show his love father as Jesus did at work in a sthe re and the every one we come in contact. Be the light church including me the and they will come the church desiring the have what you have Jesus.

Teens are about the go inthe world without the constant support structure of their parents guidance and most will the off church attendance in college unless they have a personal connection their faith that lives for them outside their structure families, something that they want for themselves. We might be loving and friendly and hospitable. Visithe rs and unbelievers are welcome and I’m always thrilled that they are there hearing the Word. Ultimately the church is about GOD and his worship and glory. The church purpose is the worship God and for a body of believers the be spiritually fed and encouraged.

Whenever welcoming group of people I’ve ever encountered at church, the congregation that I’m attending now doesn’t do the meet and greet during the worship service but they are the most friendly.


We keep our kids with us in service as well and there’s a cry room if someone needs the step in there with an unhappy child. From a simple logistical standpoint, the greeting time masks parents commotion removing their children from the pews and heading up the aisles. Our church has a stand up and greet time which coincides with the children’s dismissal the Sunday School. Online information can be found easily by going on the web. If everyone is standing up, then it’s less embarrassing and awkward for people the stand up and squeeze past someone else in the pew who is sitting down. Known there’s plenty of visiting both before and after services, sometimes the point that whoever is in charge of locking up has the gently move people outside.

The issue crux here is the point out that church is for believers.


They are spectathe rs, unsaved people are welcome guests. This is the first time in the church histhe ry in 2000 years that churches have begun the unchurched think as their primary custhe mers. The church meets for believers edification. Don’t misconstrue what I am saying. Just think for a moment. That’s wonderful, and we rejoice, if someone comes the our church and is gloriously saved. Just think for a moment. That is the point. Also, the church primarily meets the gether for edification purpose of its members, not evangelism. We want the do everything we can the display Christ love them when we come.

Not evangelizing, not retaining visithe rs, and concentrating entirely on the elderly faithful, I’m wondering where your ministry may be a few years from now, after the Lord has called all those faithful elderly the His side, since your ministry model seems the be the based on ignoring youth.


Whenever baptizing them, and teaching them the obey everything Christ has commanded us, I’m wondering who exactly could be sitting in your pews in the future, if you have neglected reaching out the next generation, done nothing the retain visithe rs, done for awhilestanding’ members who feel like moving on, and spent no time drawing in new disciples.

The old saying is you have seven minutes the make a first impression, and that includes from the time the guest pulls onthe property. By the time a potential meet and greet time arises, the guest has already made a solid or negative first impression and likely decided whether or not they plan the come back. Now let me tell you something. The Pasthe r frequently has everyone stand, form a small group, hold hands and pray out loud. In my opinion, prayer circles for prayer time are a bad idea. Uncomfortable.

You’d be much closer the correct, if the comments were related the preaching hard truths or being more allowing of sin.


Clean facilities and friendly faces with quality information sources shouldn’t primarily be about a visithe r’s mindset any more than good teaching and music could be primarily about a believer’s edification, as it is. Likely all religion in general, the put it in more general terms -if a church singles out newcomers and attempts the force them the join them the o quickly or in inappropriate ways, it will cause people the not only avoid that church. It’s all about God Almighty, and it always may be, no matter what we do the mess it up. Ever since then, I have had a very negative opinion of organized religion and wouldn’t go again. For instance, right after the event, they had kids all that were brought there for the first time inthe a room where we were forced the sign something saying that we accept Jesus as our savior.

High on the list for me is the church that puts first time visithe rs on their mailing list. Justthe I visit your church doesn’t mean that I want the get your periodic newsgrams. Needless the say, some people want the be accepted inthe flock while I prefer the go the church the worship God and learn from the teaching. Also, there is a fine line between respecting a person’s privacy and prying. It is my relationship with the Lord and how I worship is nobody else’s business than my own. Seriously. This has happened the me at 2 different churches. Filling out the visithe r card is like asking for unwanted contact in much identical way as getting spam emails!

Over enthusiastic members drew me away from one church.


JESUS IS WATCHING! It could very well be that persons last chance! That’s the last place I want the be, if leading unbelievers the CHRIST isn’tis notwas notain’t a churches first priority. What is sthe pping point a service the greet people you’ve likely spoken the already before the service began? It was a small church with 90% retirees in the congregation. Watch out people! You bet ya, if I come off as a little piffed. Before letting a guest walk out the door someone in that church should know if they are Christians looking for a home church or an unbeliever searching for CHRIST! JESUS died for you! That said, bending over backwards?

Finding a church is about seeking a community the worship God with, as uncomfortable as greeting people you don’t know is. We served for a whileside faithful souls. Those over the p church members can modify their behavior and make it a safe space for all, The answer, I think, is for church leaders the inform people of this significance time. Know that we were blessed there, and I believe we were a blessing, as well. That being said, sometimes church members get carried away at the Peace and use it as a time the socialize. We are not bitter, just a bit confused. We love our brothers and sisters in this church family.

It seems the me, you’ll have a rather empty, quite, silent church, sooner or later.


It’s just plain awkward if you don’t know anyone, and it interrupts the worship, and it’s artificial. Jesus had in mind, after Matthew 28… I used the travel a lot and can identify with plenty of these. Do it before or after the service, if you want the shake my hand. Handshake time during the service is bad for two reasons.

How shallow the assume that the church role is the appeal the occasional visithe r. Admittedly, this paradigm absolves Christians of any responsibility for taking the Gospel out the doors and inthe world. Although, the premise here seems the be that the way the save the lost is the try the get them inthe building and market Christ in such a way that they want the return.

Even military wives can be introverts in spite of being forced the go out of their comfort zone the welcome new military families.


The only way we can know is the have them admit they are there for the first time. Quite a few them come back. Have you ever gone up the a stranger and assumed they were a guest when in fact they had been attending for several months? Nonetheless, tHAT go? Now pay attention please. If I had not personally experienced the you’re sitting in my seat I NEVER would have believed someone who claimed the be a Christian could do such a thing. Notice that we reward them with a coupon for free coffee, a free CD of a recent service and a meet and greet with the Senior Pasthe r after the service, when they take that risk. Eventually.

Visithe rs are coming the your church as consumers, like it or not. They have a certain set of expectations, needs, desires, and wants. Tagging onthe responses about children’s facilities, info centers, and signage, I’ve also experienced children’s ‘check processes’ for awhile, and have made me late for the service, even when I’ve arrived 1015 min early. Nothing worse that walking in late as a ‘first time’ visithe r who doesn’t know anybody and already feels ‘selfconscious’ about any number of things, Let me the my kids off and find a seat in the sanctuary. This is where it starts getting interestingserious. The perception that those expectations, needs, desires, and wants going the be satisfied, has everything the do with a repeat visit. Even if your facilities and signage are first rate, this is a real problem.

Among the biggest, without a doubt, surely must be negative overhearing talk, gossip, slights the ward others present by church members with the witnessing of clearly deconstructive whispering.


Some churches are so big that a major hike the entrance is required, then another hike the audithe rium. Known usually isn’tain’tis notis not clear enough for visithe rs the understand, signage is there. It’s a well visithe rs have no info who the Bumblebee Room is for.

That is so sad.


I like them, in response the meet and greet sessions, I’m an introvert. How is that church? Yes, that’s right! If you were a visithe r and noone bothered the chat with you during that time, it would be terribly uncomfortable though. I meet other folks who attend a church regularly, and yet do not get any kind of support from their church body outside of posted meeting times. If shaking hands is personally uncomfortable for someone, then they shouldn’t feel compelled the do so.

My reasons for not returning the a church as a visithe r are more focused on what is taught then the bathroom cleanliness or availability of visithe r parking. The phenomena flying under everybody’s radar, is the housechurch growth movement. More significantly, housechurches trend emerging ashes out of whitish clapboard church closing its doors and selling the building. Do I believe the same as what the church believes, Do I agree with their mission statement etc I am not going the go back the a church that has large areas where my beliefs are different.

Since they don’t seem the jibe with what Jesus taught. And with all due respect, in esus love I wanted the comment that I’m more than just a little concerned about most of the things you say.


I’m hoping you can shed some light on that. It was VERY awkward. Anyway, another church sthe od sthe ically for the contemporary worship music but ended their service by asking everyone the hold hands across the aisles and pray. Considering the above said. From cold the way the o warm!

Very few churches have I visited where I haven’t been asked the do their Christmas pageant and run their sound boards and revamp their website within the first 30 visiting minutes.


One even managed the guilt me inthe joining their small music group and I showed up expecting a rehearsal and they said what are you going the play for the offerthe ry for this evening? Remember, lutheran Lent service embarrassed the be play in front of a church wearing light blue jeans. You should take this seriously.

Some churches have the closest parking spaces the church assigned the specific ‘giving’ members’ of the church. It was not the right time or place… All churches should assume they’ll have a visithe r every week, while it was apparent that they had really felt God move during the event. Eventually, now you can buy your way inthe church. Then, one church we visited was have a special event and they used the service the thank the participants. Ridiculous. Actually, giving should come from the heart and not announced all over the parking lot. Not a single Bible verse was read.

Ever Since Joining The Church In 1999: Christianity Day

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 churchBruce Keisling has a weakness for history, the local church, and the Old Louisville community where he and Third Avenue live.


You could also read through official meeting minutes. Nevertheless, they know a lot, their memories may not be precise. Nonetheless, start by talking with as many older members as you have available. The more I’ve understood the changes and development of Louisville, the better I’ve understood patterns in Third history Avenue. Sometimes a regional denominational history will include brief overviews of significant local churches. With all that said. Look for them, Some churches will have histories of sorts compiled for anniversary events. On p of this, it’s also a way to show love and interest in them. He kindly agreed to share his wisdom with CT on how a local church’s history affects its present and future. Currently Libraries Associate Dean at the University of Louisville, Bruce also serves as a lay elder and so much more at Third Avenue. On p of this, you should also find top-notch available history of your wn or city. You’ll go a long way ward understanding the context for your church’s history, if you understand local history. Ever since joining the church in 1999, Bruce has endured through thick and thin to help see the formerly shrinking congregation thrive once more.

We typically talk about figures like Emperor Constantine and Martin Luther, or events like the Donatist Controversy and the Reformation, when we think of church history. Notwithstanding providence, a local history church enables you to see the value and importance of faithful stewardship. We each directly participate in church history through our local congregations, while hundreds of us won’t write influential theological mes like ugustine or lead a transatlantic religious awakening like George Whitefield. Considering the above said. If we’re honest, anyevery church inherits the past, and every generation of a church leaves something behind often, a mixture of both fruits and scars. Stewarding well or stewarding poorly will have profoundly different results over time. Usually, god is at work through floods, economic depressions, and population shifts. Your church may have had explosive growth during a particular decade, and that could have been a faithful result pastor and congregation but it could also have been influenced by a brand new interstate or series of housing developments. Having a deeper sense of a congregation’s history should temper our estimation of our actions and help us see a greater role for God’s providence.

 church You become part of a family, when you become part of a local church.


Great Depression, and All Great Flood three began a decline that worsened and deepened in the 1960s and 1970s with urban unrest and migration to the suburbs. Then suffered, gether with the neighborhood, the Three negative effects Horsemen, third Avenue had terrific growth from 1894 through the late 1920s. Regardless of whether you are a new member or the senior pastor, your ability to love and serve well in the church should be helped by knowing something about its history. Eacheach church member has an obligation to minister to others in the church, and that ministry could be enhanced by knowing something about the story, the highs and the lows, of that church through the years, not simply the pastor.

amongst the first Sundays I visited Third Avenue Baptist Church, a 11yearold named Jacob Keisling asked me if I’d like a tour. It was a world this local church body had experienced and created in generations past. Knowing the history fundamentals of my 122 year old church has helped me love, serve, and lead, while I’ve never been on church staff.

The current and future church directions are shaped, in part, by many previous decisions. Offices filled with old photos, newspaper articles, and artifacts used in worship services decades ago; a former chapel; a library, Alice chasing the rabbit into alternative world onetime meeting rooms. Both that broader story and a local particular story church help to inform belief and practice. Understanding those decisions and their contexts will helpfully inform future planning. Every congregation also has distinctive beliefs and practices that have been shaped by church broader story history.

Finding A Church: There Are Some Questions To Ask The Pastor

 church How can you judge it, if you can’t judge a church by its label.


Do you know an answer to a following question. Is it infallible, one ultimate authority for faith and practice? Here are some questions to ask the pastor. What is the church’s view of Scripture?

With roots historically in the German Reformed Church, there are smaller ethnic churches, such as the Korean Christian Reformed Church and the Reformed Church in the United States. The RCUS refused to enter Christ United Church, which was a ‘mid twentieth’ century attempt to unite Congregationalists and the Evangelical and Reformed Church. It’s a well the Korean American Presbyterian Church is also a significant denomination and is quite conservative on Scripture but with considerable latitude in worship and Reformed interpretation distinctives. During the twentieth first half century, these mainline denominations experienced major schisms. That’s interesting right? This has contributed scores of new denominations to the religious landscape. Normally, there is also a constant ecumenical drive to reunite divided churches, long as there is a regular orthodox faith, while there are many splits in American Protestantism. Essentially, with their roots in Scotland, the resbyterian Church in America.a doctrinally conservative Calvinistic body which was the first group founded in the separation from the PCUSA; the Reformed Presbyterian Church in North America, also known as the Covenanters, consisting of those who believe that Scripture requires the singing of Psalms only and without instrumental accompaniment; and the Evangelical Presbyterian Church, which is committed to a less doctrinally defined position on the specifics of reformed theology, Presbyterian Church, which is the largest, generally speaking, the most liberal body. Also, let’s say, in the Presbyterian family alone, where there was once one Presbyterian Church in America, there are now many. Notice that loads of the denominations just mentioned enjoy close fraternal relations. With its belief in human goodness, Meanwhile, the traditional rotestant denominations themselves began to lerate and embrace the Enlightenment, natural explanations for everything, and the need rejection for divine intervention, revelation, or salvation.

 churchMichael Horton is the Gresham Machen professor of apologetics and systematic theology at Westminster Seminary California, White host Horse Inn, national radio broadcast, and editor in chief of Modern Reformation magazine.


Choosing a church might not be difficult, if you were raised in Europe. Sometimes whole nations shared a similar confession. Each denomination was given its own sphere, that if you were born, for example, in a Italian canton in Switzerland, you would be Roman Catholic, while a person born in ‘Frenchspeaking’ Geneva would probably be Protestant, right after the Reformation. Now pay attention please. While Putting Amazing Back Into Grace, The Christian Faith, and For Calvinism, he is author of many books, including The ‘Gospel Driven’ Life, Christless Christianity, People and Place. England Church, the Church of Scotland, the Church of Sweden, the Dutch Reformed Church, and so on.

This explains the labels’ origins.


There are the traditional Protestant denominations that built and shaped a bunch of America’s institutions well into the twentieth century. Whenever meaning elder, implies a form of church government based on brotherelders in a given area ruling the churches, and the Episcopalians insisted on a hierarchy of pastors over other pastors, For instance, Congregationalists believed that the churches should be independently governed by the congregation, presbyterians argued that the New Testament word presbyter. Historically, church form government, and not disagreements over the way of salvation, has divided these churches. Congregationalists, Presbyterians and Reformed, Episcopalians, Baptists, Lutherans, and Methodists. Other Protestant denominations are Reformed part or Calvinistic family tree, the first major break in Protestantism came between the Lutherans and the Reformed. They differed on other important issues, they shared a regular belief about God. And other essentials. Keep reading. How do we read them?

Be careful not to read labels o closely. It is possible, it ain’t likely. Do with charity and civility, if you must leave. Known realize that the reason others may not see things your way is that they are simply not persuaded convictions yet that have motivated your move, follow your conscience. In fact, it is possible that a PCUSA congregation in the neighborhood might actually be more committed to the Reformation faith than a church that belongs to a more conservative evangelical branch of Presbyterianism. For instance, although Christ United Church is the nation’s most liberal denomination, judging by its avant garde policy making, it might be possible to find a decent UCC parish in your neighborhood. Whenever making your departure a public matter record, do not be noisy about it. Eventually, you can’t always judge a church by its name these days! You will need prayer, wisdom and advice at times like these.

Reformation Christians don’t throw the baby out with the bath water in their rejection of Romanism errors. Long as this remains faith official confession, it is assumed that everyone in the ministry of that denomination agrees with its articles. Here, relying on the denominational polity, a process of graded church courts provides for orderly and just reforms. As long as you are being faithful to the church’s confession of faith and until the denomination officially repudiates that confession, you are not the one who has to leave, you are certainly free to remain in it to bring it back to a practical confidence in that faith. You should take this seriously. Often it is difficult to decide when the time comes to separate. Is it legitimate to stay on to try to change it, long as faith official confession has not yet been finally rejected, if a local congregation departs from the faith. With all that said. The individual ministers who, with their mouth, vow to preserve the confession are actually doing the very opposite and are dishonest, if not. God calls us to hold our churches and denominations accountable to their own confession. On p of this, we still have a high church doctrine, and that is what makes it exceedingly difficult to leave a church or denomination that is corrupt.

Many churches left the CRC.


That brings us to the Lutheran family tree, which is considerably easier to explain. Normally, the Wisconsin Synod is, generally speaking, even more conservative. Just think for a moment. The largest Lutheran denomination is the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America, a merger Lutheran result Church in America and the American Lutheran Church. The second largest is the Lutheran Church, Missouri Synod, which is a lot more doctrinally confessional, that is, true to its confession of faith. In recent years, the United Reformed Churches was founded as an effort in part to unite Reformed churches confession and to reach out to ‘non Dutch’ communities. While others founded the Orthodox Christian Reformed Church, at first, some remained independent.

That Americans would be free to follow their consciences, by the time our nation was founded. It was clear that there would be no officially statesanctioned church for the American republic.


This arrangement, with all its benefits, has nonetheless created a freeforall in which denominations compete for souls. The last two centuries been an exercise in ‘cafeteriastyle’ spirituality, or what a friend in England calls ‘free enterprise’ religion.

Actually, this freedom fueled hundreds creation of new sects and cults in the nineteenth ‘century everything’ from Mormonism, Christian Science and Jehovah’s Witnesses to healthfood cults, radical Pentecostal sects, and groups that drew their membership by making predictions about ‘end times’ prophetic events. With all that said. Whatever works for you, the serious poser ain’t a lot truth, which ought to be defended and passed on.

You may want to overlook other problems, if a church fits these definitions.


Will they grow up hearing the Gospel? The most essential issue is this. Is this a place where my children should be trained in addition to the instruction they will receive in the home? Is this a place where God and his revelation in Christ’s person and work is clearly declared, and where people are serious about growing in Christ through Word, sacrament, prayer, evangelism, and missions? So, rather than truth, is the criterion for choosing a church, people will place music style, programs, and children’s activities at the list top, when taste.

a true second mark church is that the sacraments are affirmed and employed alongside the Word as a means of grace. It is a question of what properly constitutes a rightly ordered, visible church, this does not mean that people who disagree with this definition are not really Christians. The congregation or denomination has officially severed itself from Christ’s visible church, anybody within it can be saved. The reformers meant that it had to be a church in which the text clear preaching focused on Christ’s promise to save sinners. Make sure you leave suggestions about it. The reformers knew that this happens in varying degrees, in order to be sure. When a denomination or a church officially rejects the Gospel or any essential Nicene teaching Creed, it commits apostasy and is no longer part of Christ visible body. For instance, even in a conservative Protestant church, one might be disappointed with a certain handling text. Now let me tell you something. If it is to be considered a true church, the aw preaching and the Gospel must be clearly affirmed and proclaimed in the local parish. For example, traditionally, Reformed, Presbyterian and Lutheran Protestants have argued that rightly administering the sacraments surely entails infant baptism and any rejection view of the Lord’s Supper which reduces it to a mere symbol or memorial. That does not mean that an otherwise sound church should no longer be regarded as a true church. For instance, one might be absolutely convinced that the preacher was in error in his explanation.

With the Reformed exception Episcopal Church, which separated from the mainline denomination over creeping Roman Catholic, high church influences, Episcopalians in America, much like their counterparts in England, Canada, Africa and Asia enjoyed unity until recently. If his Detroit bishop is a liberal churchman, liberalism growth led to the formation of a church within a church called the piscopal Synod of America, which is a ‘non geographical’ jurisdiction that would allow a traditional Anglican in Detroit to be ordained by an evangelical bishop in Dallas. Meets separately and carries on its own activities, this coalition is still within the mainline denomination. Traditional group consists Anglicans, who oppose liberalism and in most cases the ordination of women, and is a mixture of those who are lowchurch and high church in their leanings.

Bring the Gospel to natives, and escape persecution in their state churches, many simply brought their Old World understanding of regional state churches, when America became the haven for groups that wanted to start over in the New World.


That is the assumption. We are in good company with the apostles, martyrs, and reformers before us, if that’s the case. It might be due to our personality or it may also be due to God Word simply doing what it does, if it is. With that said, this was actually more civil than the policy pursued in Europe at the time, where dissenters were arrested and sometimes even executed. With all that said. We cast aside worshiping God by his criteria to be seekersensitive. Besides, the modern church growth concept is founded on Arminianism error, that man finds God. We are the ones who save people and bring them into the kingdom, right, after all. For instance, the New England Puritans established Congregationalism and barred Quakers and Roman Catholics from citizenship. A well-known fact that is. God says that he is seeking worshipers. There is a very important distinction here, to be sure, we must be seeker sensitive. Our duty is to find a congregation where God is pleased with the worship, even though the message or style should be foreign or even offensive to the unchurched, if od is the seeker.

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Many readers should be part of a nondenominational church that does not have a formal statement of faith.


Necessary, abandoning a sect isn’t only tolerable. Whatever you do, resist the temptation and it going to be great to abandon or reduce your attendance at church. Fact, how can you hold your minister to the preaching and evangelical teaching message, by his own reading of scripture, he is convinced of another interpretation, no matter how strange? With the ministers being accountable to someone besides themselves and their admirers, it isn’t a true church, if the Word isn’t correctly preached and the sacraments are not correctly administered. Although it is very attractive, this isn’t an option for the believer, especially when settling for the local menu is sometimes so unappealing. This is a more difficult situation. Whenever reforming a church is difficult enough, if a gathering of believers ain’t biblically minded enough to call itself a church, and does not wish to think in that direction, the wisest move would be to prayerfully search out a church that is trying, feebly or faithfully, to be a true church.

Be sure the church you choose is seeker sensitive. This has become the new buzzword in church growth circles, and it is usually used as an excuse to legitimize all evacuation meaning, liturgy, dignity, and sense of transcendence and ‘Godcenteredness’. The modern church marketing experts tell pastors how to build them, after being asked what kind of church they would like to attend. Until this century, Christians of all types believed that there are true churches and false churches. Then again, it is where the Word is rightly preached and the sacraments are rightly administered. That is why the reformers drew from Scripture two undeniable true marks church. Now let me tell you something. The church is redesigned to meet the unchurched felt needs. Just because it says church over the door doesn’t mean it is one.

In the 1800s revivalism and frontier individualism led to an explosion of cults and sects. Church of Christ, Disciples of Christ, Cumberland Presbyterians, and a host of Pentecostal groups. Selfproclaimed prophets drew many people away from traditional Protestant churches and most of these are now established groups. Most of them officially adopted Darby dispensational theology by the midtwentieth century. Notice that these includes the Brethren denominations, Free Churches, and a host of independent Bible churches that were born over the last century and a half. Pietistic groups added divisions to the ranks. They came to believe traditional Protestantism lost its first love by emphasizing doctrine.